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Hi everyone,

I'm living the worst days of my life right now... Yesterday I broke up with my girlfriend after 3 and a half years... Just when I was shopping for engagement rings and the like.

My whole f-ing life was turned upside down in less than 7 hours yesterday... And now I'm feeling really, really, really down. The worst that I ever felt.

I know this is a car forum and all, but I need some support here guys... Not many friends around this weekend and me mum is travelling.

s**t! Really sorry to hear that, been through it myself, and its hard!
Hang in there though, and it will get easier!

Matt

Sorry to hear that mate, not really had a GF that I would have married so far but I can begin to imagine how it must feel

I hope things get better

<3

I'm sorry to hear it dude.

Me and my girlfriend split up 2 months back and I was heartbroken. Just after my birthday too, the day of my party.

I did a few silly things, like start smoking again, but I decided to put her to the back of my mind and go and enjoy everything else in my life. My mates were absolutely fantastic to me and made me feel so much better.

I hope you get yourself sorted soon. I know how s**t it is.

though its gonna be hard for a while, you will find strength and pull through... its natural to be cut up badly... terrible news dude, hope things look up sooner rather than later

is it a temporary fall out, might you be back together, or has something really nasty happened?

The worse part is over, it can only get better now....

Tahrey1043 wrote:is it a temporary fall out, might you be back together, or has something really nasty happened?

Mate, it could be temporary I suppose, but probably not. Trust was broken, you see. And something that we'd been trying to "hide" from ourselves for a while (a huge maturity gap between us) has now become all too apparent when this last issue came to light.

So when it came to it, I just couldn't find the strenght to swallow a bitter pill and carry on with love alone sustaining the relationship.


I'm in a kind of limbo, but the whole thing is starting to sink in now and I think I'll get worse before I get better. I'd recently told my mother I'd decided to marry her and everything seemed fine.

I don't know how I'm going to show up for work tomorrow, hopefully there'll be plenty to do, that way I'll be able to concentrate on other things.


Many many thanks for all your support so far. This is really cool and just hearing from you makes me feel better.

sorry 2 hear it mate, never been in the situation of thinking of getting married but have had a few long term gf's & its never easywhen it eends.

I don't know how I'm going to show up for work tomorrow, hopefully there'll be plenty to do, that way I'll be able to concentrate on other things.

yeh jst try 2 keep urself busy.

Yeh loves hard, no two ways about it!

I almost broke up with my gf recently and was pretty heart broken. I can level with you on this one. Why not jus take this chance to have fun?

Its all downhill from here.

sorry to hear mate
my lifes been abit like that recently, my ex gf suddenly decided that it was time for a career change and what a carrer change it was, a holiday rep for 10 months a year! so we ended things and it was tough getting through that, but it will only get better mate. honestly

-Ben-

Just smile it makes others worry.

** Rolls Babe RuthLess a Big Phat JOINT **



I feel yr pain bro !

Cal

*huuuuuuuuuug*

i know exactly how you feel mate i was with my ex girlfriendf for 2 years and we decided to that we were going to have a future together we had overcome all possible problems and thought all troubles were behind us

than her family decided to immigrate to oz and wel i guess i came second after family so she left and said that she would sort issues out with her family and come back in a month

she decided not to and started seein someone else so quickly...... and im stil sitting here broken hearted , best thing to do is keep occupied i know it don't help alot but thats life i guess u just goto face it

sorry to go on bout my problems mate

i hope you cheer up very soon mate

het mate hows it going?

i know how ur feeling
i was with my ex for like 5 years (my first g/f) and then she ended becoz we'd "grown apart" and i was torn up inside. it took me like a year and a quarter to get ova her!!
the thing that really hurt was that she was with someone else within 2 weeks, a work pal of hers (and she said she didn't plan it).

oh well we're still good friends (i forgive far too easily) couldn't not have her in my life i guess??

hope it all works out for ya matey