So just a small update...
I got a small victory with the insurance who have allowed me to have different wheels providing they are Volkswagen...
VW motorsport 17s
Found a bargain online £300 excellent condition couldn't say no really.
So on they went
Then off the back one came

flat tyre
Drums need something doing with them
Then...
Off came the front - flat tyre 3 days later haha
However as of now all is well, have noticed a considerably different driving experience. It's still a 60ps but it moves a lot better and feels a bit more sporty (not much) but I like it.
I'm becoming more increasingly drawn to the idea of a vinyl wrap :/ even the mrs didn't say no haha. I think ill stick to my original shopping list for now + a splitter and put the wrap on the back burner.