I liked the way you have dealt with this electrical installation, it is as it should be, little by little and carefully to ensure that everything is correct.
Some of the following links may be useful to you, but since you don't have the G85 sensor due to your ABS unit the functions for SCLs are not possible.
http://www.uk-polos.net/viewtopic.php?f ... 05#p474349
http://www.uk-polos.net/viewtopic.php?f ... 95#p477710
http://www.uk-polos.net/viewtopic.php?f ... 65#p491539
http://www.uk-polos.net/viewtopic.php?f ... 65#p491577
http://www.uk-polos.net/viewtopic.php?f ... 30#p504328
http://www.uk-polos.net/viewtopic.php?f ... 82#p517482
http://www.uk-polos.net/viewtopic.php?f ... 15#p517604
http://www.uk-polos.net/viewtopic.php?f ... 20#p518296
http://www.uk-polos.net/viewtopic.php?f ... 20#p518219
http://www.uk-polos.net/viewtopic.php?f ... 80#p520980
viewtopic.php?f=56&t=58703&start=4020#p529332
Regarding your last question that you asked me by email, on the PQ25 platform the fog lights cannot be activated when the light switch is in the AUTO position. BCMs are not designed to manage it.
The proper light switch must be installed, which does not physically allow the knob to be pulled to activate the fog lights from the Auto position.
With some of the light switches sold on Ali anything is possible if you have any of these switches ... I think the intention of those kind of light switches sold on Ali is to make them compatible with many cars.

